she told me it wasn't the disappointment that he went to buy without her. but that he promised. and she expected him to keep the promise even though it's such a small favor. she had many plans for that big surprise. and she got her mum to help. it was really gonna be a surprise. finally getting something he really wanted and without him knowing. he promised. yes he did. but he didn't keep it. the surprise is redundant now. and she's too tired to be even disappointed.